He Loves Jesus But Hates Religion. Really?

Jefferson Bethke’s very slick video “Why I Hate Religion But Love Jesus” is getting a lot of buzz right now. There are news stories, YouTube comments and responses, and it is just a few days old.

And it must be admitted: He  gets a lot of things right in his poem. Religion often eclipses faith. Politics often bleeds into religion. It’s really bad when those things happen.

But he also gets a lot of things wrong. Let’s engage some of Bethke’s questions.

Bethke asks: “What if I told you Jesus came to abolish religion?”

Well, Jefferson, I’d direct you to Jesus’ own words, in Matthew 5:17: “Do not think that I have come to abolish the law or the prophets. I have come not to abolish but to fulfill.”

Or Matthew 16:18-19 (Jesus to Peter: “On this rock I will build my church … whatever you bind on earth is bound in heaven,” etc.)

Or John 20:22-23 (Jesus to apostles: “if you forgive anyone his sins, they are forgiven; if you do not forgive them, they are not…” etc.)

Or Mathew 18:17 (Jesus to apostles: “if they refuse to listen even to the church, treat them as you would a pagan …” etc.)

Bethke asks: “What if I told you  …. just because you call some people blind / Doesn’t automatically give you vision.”

I’d say, yes, Jefferson. That is absolutely true … and ironic, in a poem where you are calling two millennia of religious Christians blind and suggesting that you have vision.

Bethke asks: “I mean if religion is so great, why has it started so many wars?”

I would answer — apart from the fact that those who oppose religion have killed more in one century than the religious killings of two millennia — that there’s a logic fail, here.

You could just as easily say: “If feeding your children is so great, why has it started so many wars?” or “If defending your fiefdom against marauding barbarian rapists is so great, why has it started so many wars?”

What you have to do is specify the wars and the motivations involved in order for us to answer your question.

Bethke asks: “Why does [religion] build huge churches, but fails to feed the poor.”

Again, Jefferson, you need to be careful, since you love Jesus.

You might as well ask:

“Why did the baby Jesus receive ornate gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh instead of feeding the poor? Why was Jesus presented in the Temple, if the money for the Temple should have gone to the poor? When he was lost, why did his parents find him in the Temple preaching, instead of serving the poor? Why did he angrily drive the money-changers out of the Temple saying ‘zeal for my Father’s house consumes me,’ instead of angrily driving the tax-collectors to serve the poor saying ‘zeal for the poor consume me’?”

And you have to realize, Jefferson, that if you put this question to Jesus, he will give you the same answer he gave the apostles when they saw Jesus annointed with costly perfume and asked, in Matthew 26:8-9, “Why this waste? It could have been sold for much, and the money given to the poor.” (Look up his answer!)

And I have a question for you. Why are you spending all this money on a fancy video, when it could have been given to the poor?

I love what Jefferson Bethke has to say about the Church, however ( though what he means by the Church is unclear): “It’s not a museum for good people, it’s a hospital for the broken” is a great old line.

But the poem states its case most succinctly  when it says:

“[R]eligion says do; Jesus says done

Religion says slave; Jesus says son

Religion puts you in bondage; while Jesus sets you free

Religion makes you blind, but Jesus makes you see.”

Apart from some factual problems (Actually, Jesus says “do” quite a lot, and he swaps the word “friend” for “slave,” not “son” for “slave”) I think we need to defend the name of Jesus here.

Jesus was a lover of the Temple, a fulfiller of the law, the one who established the Church, and the one who calls the Christian Church his body.

While “religion” has as many downsides as any human thing, Christianity became a “religion” from the beginning: From St. Peter setting dietary rules to St. Paul setting the Eucharistic formula, to St. John writing to the churches that they need to get their act together, etc.

In fact, the afterlife is described in the book of Revelation as a religious liturgical service.

So I leave it to Jefferson Bethke to explain how he accounts for those problems in order to love Jesus without loving any vestige of “religion.”

I would leave him with one warning, though. At one point, Bethke asks: “But if Jesus came to your church would they actually let him in?” (Mine definitely would.)

Bethke should ask himself: “If it turns out that Jesus really did found a religion, will I love him still?”


Tom Hoopes

Tom Hoopes

Tom Hoopes, author of The Rosary of Saint John Paul II and The Fatima Family Handbook, is writer in residence at Benedictine College in Kansas and hosts The Extraordinary Story podcast about the life of Christ. A former reporter in the Washington, D.C., area, he served as press secretary of the U.S. House Ways & Means Committee Chairman and spent 10 years as executive editor of the National Catholic Register newspaper and Faith & Family magazine. His work frequently appears in Catholic publications such as Aleteia.org and the Register. He and his wife, April, have nine children and live in Atchison, Kansas.